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Bernard Brady
Well, dear friends- My Dad's funeral was this past Sat and today our final family guests headed back home. First of all, thank you to all of you for your kindness and phone calls. I have been here in San Angelo since Aug.2010, living next door to him and Mom. Bought the patio home right next door. I've watched it and seen it all. From "agony to the thrill of victory" as they say. Dad was 90. He had Altzeimers, Congestive heart failure, COPD, and severe diabetes. He had gained weight up to an estimated 300 lbs (he could not stand on a scale). He was such a dynamic Architect in Houston with John Jamail. He retired at age 81 ! Retired to San Angelo in 2003 - my Mom's hometown. Had a mind as sharp as a steel trap until March, 2011 and then it began to let him down. If you have been through this with a parent or two, I do not have to describe it, If you have not, I am unable to find words. He reverted back to a little boy. He ended up in the hospital a bit over a week ago with serious pnuemonia. Dr's call this a seniors best friend as it usually takes them straight to Heaven. It did. While on temporary life support all the children and many grandchildren were at his side when the respirator was turned off. We had all gotten to say goodbye even though he was in a coma. It was a kind process. It was okay. I was stroking his face when he expired. I'm not sure if what I am experiencing today is grief or relief. But all is well. I got to hear alot of his personal history directly from him over the past year. If you should be given an opportunity like this, grab a hold of it. Love ya all, BJ
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